How to behave towards somebody who has anorexia
The best help an anoretic can receive is unconditional love and empathy. Anorexia is fundamentally less about food than an individual's psychological need to feel safe - in that they do not.
As is common among suffers of some eating disorders, an anoretic may be very secretive about their disorder. Being confronted by another about it for the first time may result in feelings of panic and distress, so an informed and considerate caution is recommended. However it is important to remember that anorexia is a dangerous disorder that signifies chronic suffering in an individual - it is important not to delay in seeking help for the person whom you believe has anorexia or bulimia. Researching the condition and consulting your local eating-disorder support-network are good beginnings.
In handling an anorexic dependant, is dangerous to 'just force' them to eat without support. Eating for most anorexics is not as easy as "just eat" as with non eating-disordered people. While being firm is important, keep in mind that eating things which are not considered 'safe' will most likely strike fear and panic inside the sufferer.
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*having been a survivor of such abuse is not altogether rare among anorexia-sufferers, and therefore the possibility should be taken into empathetic consideration
¹see article in the New Scientist